I love the assets I am getting from you: sex, attention, validation, someone to cuddle, good conversation, and so on. Let’s say I like you and things are going well. This is kind of off topic but the theory still applies: What I am trying to get at is, yes his actions can change BUT it’s not directly due to 100% his feelings. Therefore, if he feels like you want one or it’s going down that page, he may back off He could still like you but not want a relationship.He actually could see that overnight and completely change. That means the assets are great but due to the liabilities, they’re not worth it anymore. While you’re right on that point, there are several reasons why a man’s actions could change drastically: MUST-READ: Will He Come Back When He’s Ready For A Relationship? The next question I would probably hear is, “Okay I get what you’re saying, maybe he didn’t like that much anymore. Why would he just toss all that away over a little change due to one night? Especially a woman he’s investing heavily in and up to this point, things have been great. What would be the advantage of letting go of a woman who he doesn’t like?
You have to look at it from his perspective in terms of advantages. Because a man’s feelings don’t change that way for people he really likes. How amazing was that chemistry, sex, and good times if he’s able to lose feelings and change overnight? I know you may find that hard to believe because you two had such amazing chemistry and good times up to that point but think of it like this: If you want EXTREME detail on this topic, go to my course Attraction Academy where I tell you exactly what men think:
A lot of the times, you just didn’t things coming because you don’t see things from the mindset of the guy. Women do not like when I say this but it’s the truth. His Feelings Changed Because He Wasn’t Sure About You To Begin With Even if you did do something, I still find it hard to believe they would change that drastically. If his feelings were closer to the 7-10 range, I find it hard to believe his feelings were going to change overnight without you doing anything. MUST-READ: Why You Should Never Chase A Guy Who Pulled Away MUST-READ: Does Ignoring A Guy Make Him Want You More? In my opinion, the only way to justify it changing so drastically is due to his feelings for you being so close in the middle (meaning he was unsure). that means, obviously, in the middle is neutral ground. The more right you go, the more he can’t stand you. Think of it as a large spectrum based on feelings. So how much did he actually like you to begin with? If ANY of the above bullet points are true, it was going to happen either way no matter how amazing you are. But the reason I still say the didn’t change is this: When this stuff happens, I can understand where it looks like his feeling changed. A guy who wasn’t sure about you but played it off.A guy who realized the pacing was too fast and bit off more than he can chew.A guy who acted as he liked you to get a particular thing.However, it is important to talk about the things that make it seem like his feelings changed overnight. Had a like bias and tried to justify it.Have weighed the assets versus the liabilities and stayed (unless you did something really bad).If he really liked you and wanted a relationship, he would: That’s not how TRUE and GENUINE feelings work. Logically speaking, it wouldn’t be the best idea or in the guy’s best interest to invest heavily in you, like you, and then you do something wrong and he throws the idea of you two away and move on. MUST-READ: When A Guy Pulls Away, How Long Before He Comes Back? MUST-READ: True Love Is When He Ignores You? Did He Ever Love You? Let’s break this down so you understand what I mean and have a clear idea of what he’s thinking. The reason his feelings “changed” overnight is in his mind, he wasn’t sure about you to begin with but didn’t let it show. He can’t go from really liking you to not liking you unless you did something extreme. Yes, his feeling can change overnight but not as you think. While all men are different, what I am about to talk about is a large majority of men. I am going to tell you EXACTLY what goes on in a guy’s head, what actually happened, and if his feelings can change that fast. I have been a guy who liked a girl one day and then overnight, my feelings have changed.
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